Think for Ourselves:
Don't accept at face value that what we hear is fact. Question, dig deeper and seek out reliable sources (including our inner voice) before settling on something as truth. Don't allow someone to take away the power of self-discernment. Critical thinking, common sense and intuition are valuable tools to help keep us in life's driver seat. Truth is subjective and influenced by our beliefs. As such, we need to be open to changing our truths as we discover more and experience more of what life has to offer. It is dangerous to be stuck with an old truth just because the group consensus remains steadfast to the old ways despite new evidence to the contrary.
Fear, control, manipulation and false promises are tactics used to persuade society to think a certain way. Tactics are used to encourage purchases of products, to blame a group or individual for arising problems, make rash decisions rooted in the fear of what could be and/or to follow an individual, party or company based on their promises rather than rejecting them due to their questionable behaviours or poor past track record. Question and think for ourselves!
Let Go of the Past:
We all have had "good" and "bad" experiences growing up. We harbour regrets, sadness around what could of been and anger at what was. Holding on to these emotions and beliefs perpetuates the suffering and weighs us down with baggage from the past. In order to liberate ourselves, we need to look at those experiences from a different perspective. They are done, we can't change the circumstances but we can extract the value gained from the experience and decipher how we can grow from it. Judging ourselves, being angry at another misguided person or hanging onto the desire for a situation or individual to have been different only hurts ourselves and our ability to let our true self shine through. Let go, forgive yourself, forgive others but retain the lesson learned and move on from there. Find a way to face, give space and release the blocked emotions, be it talking to the person dead or alive, in your head or out loud to get things off your chest. Maybe letting go, is writing a letter describing the pain and then symbolically burning it or finding a trusting empathetic or professionally trained ear to open up to. Sometimes letting go are quiet moments alone to feel, acknowledge the emotions and allow them to flow up and out in the form of a cleansing cry. Whatever the method, no matter how many repetitions, we must give ourselves a hug and do our best in the moment to free ourselves and incrementally move forward a little lighter and wiser.
Thinking for ourselves and letting go but learning from the past, liberates ourselves to be ourselves. This reclaiming of our power and increased self-acceptance activates our inner drive, passions and creative expression. It also allows us to make an valuable and unique contribution/imprint to the colourful, interlocking tapestry/canvas we call Life.